Mo chroí, my heart.
4 years ago
these words related to my feelings of love after having a child. After giving birth to my first daughter,
I used to whisper this to her during our many sleepless nights together. I even considered having the words tattooed
on my body somewhere. But I knew I
wanted another child someday and I decided against getting a tattoo that only honored
her in hopes of someday getting a tattoo that would honor all of my kids.
In the shower
this morning, the memories of holding my newborn and breathing those words came
whooshing back to me.
This story
is not just my story. It started as my
Dad’s story, then became the story of our family. This story does not have an ending. We are still testing and learning and it
still has many unknowns.
August 2nd,
2014. A regular Saturday. My sister and I had plans to take my niece to
her first concert. Katy Perry. I met my sister at her house and before we
left, she said “I just want to run down and check on Dad, he’s been having
trouble breathing today”. This was odd
of course, but when she checked on him he seemed fine and off we went.
August 3rd,
2014. My parents, siblings and nieces
gathered for a family lunch in honor of my nieces’ birthday. My Dad mentioned he had been feeling a little
lightheaded and he said he was going to call his doctor on Monday. As we were leaving the restaurant, he was carrying
my son and stopped short, having to quickly put Flynn down because he felt
dizzy and couldn’t breathe.
The next
week was a whirlwind. My dad woke up
Monday with chest pain, went to the doctor, then to the hospital. The local hospital transferred him to Beth
Israel in Boston. He was diagnosed with
heart failure and 15% heart function.
Heart failure. What a scary freaking couple of words. My Dad has undergone many tests over the past
couple of months. Recently, an MRI gave
us a more specific diagnosis. Left
ventricular noncompaction cardiomyopathy (LVNC). A genetic condition. The cardiologists strongly recommended a
routine cardiac evaluation for all immediate family members. My Dad also had blood drawn to look for a
mutation known to cause this particular kind of cardiomyopathy. We do not yet know the results of that test.
This week I
had my first tests done. I went to Beth
Israel for an echocardiogram on Tuesday.
My blood pressure before the echo was 151/101. I have had high blood pressure since my first
pregnancy that has never ‘gone away’ so it is not unusual for me to have
spikes, especially if I am nervous or stressed.
On Wednesday, I went back to meet with a cardiologist who also
specializes in familial heart disease.
My blood pressure that day was 145/95.
My echocardiogram showed decreased heart function. A normal heart's
ejection fraction is between 55 and 70.
Mine is currently at 45%. My high
blood pressure, familial history and current heart function warrant more
testing. I am awaiting a call back to
schedule the heart MRI.
I’ve
inherited many things from my Dad. My
chin, my hair color, my eye color, my skin tone, my height...
It now appears as though I may have inherited his heart as well. I am 33 years old and a cardiologist is now a
regular part of my life. I will see a cardiologist as regularly as everyone else goes to the dentist. My new normal.
I do not
have heart failure. I don’t even technically
have a 'heart issue' right now. Yet. I will be
tested to see if I also have LVNC like my Dad.
I do have an increased risk for developing heart failure later in life. The doctor said yesterday “your Dad lived 62
years with this condition feeling fine.
He felt better than fine. And
then one day he wasn’t. You are lucky to
know so early that you are at risk. You
will be monitored and we will know if your heart function is decreasing before
it ever gets to 15% like your Dad.”
There are no
treatments that can prevent or change the course of heart failure. However, modern medicine is advancing every
day, and doctors believe preventive treatments will be developed in the future. Right now, doctors manage heart conditions
with medicine and lifestyle changes. LVNC
is a little different. It’s actually a
rare genetic disease and there are limited studies on it. There is no specific treatment for it.
Mo chroí, my heart.
Same words,
different meaning. My children are still
mo chroí, of course. They are also the
reason I am getting all of this testing done.
I want to be here a long time for them and if they are at risk for a
genetic disease I want them to know as early as possible. You can feel your heart thudding away every
time you put your hand to your chest, but do you have any idea what’s really
going on in there? I didn’t. But I will.
xoxo